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Selling Your Online Dating Personal Profile

In the world of online dating, as in everywhere else, first impressions count. The personal profile you create in an online dating site will be just like a shop window, either enticing people in, or letting them walk passed with glazed eyes. You have plenty of great qualities to sell, so it’s worth making sure they are packaged to stand out from the crowd.

If you were browsing in a store, would your eyes be drawn to a dull brown box with a description of contents listed in plain font on the base? The chances are you wouldn’t notice it among all the other colourful packages in the same store. In the same vein, make sure you list all your attributes and back each up with examples that will grab the attention of those reading.

Just as a shopkeeper wouldn’t keep their quality merchandise in a back room, neither should you hide your best qualities. It pays to describe your best points in the first few sentences of your profile. And to further stand out, keep everything clear and concise. There’s no point created a jumbled, messy display. Cut any extraneous material so that you have pared it down to the most essential points.

You’ve come this far, so to ensure you make the most of your online dating experience, view your profile as a display of all of the fine qualities you have to offer, and you’ll be in the best position to capture an attentive audience.

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